A mother’s love is the most powerful positive emotion in the human experience. Throughout our lives we seek this love that we do not fully understand. In doing so, we may unintentionally harm others and ourselves by trying to escape the effects of our inner separation and lack of this love.
We live in times of ongoing trauma in families and relationships that can lead to potential social breakdown. This situation demands radically new ways of being in relationship with ourselves and each other. There is a desperate need to find secure and caring parental figures, which causes us to gravitate toward spiritual and intellectual security in religion and philosophy. However, this has also led to a sick spirituality and an unhealthy desire for transformations.
Our insecurities stem from our attempts to create certainty for ourselves, making it impossible to feel truly secure. This false sense of maturity masks the fact that everyone is a unique creation. However, we often confuse uniqueness with individualism, which has become a pervasive challenge in relationships and parenting.
In the Western world, we are reaching a tipping point in the way we approach relationships, parenting and family structures. Contemporary culture values individualism, personal freedom and human rights, while advocating relationships and family values of respect and reverence for our parents. This division creates a complex and often contradictory landscape for building meaningful relationships and strong family bonds.
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We live in a period that is defining for relationships. This period is one of the most significant turning points in relationships, parenting and family life. Our cultural values, passed down through generations through epigenetic imprints and societal traditions that honor our relationships, now face new challenges. These challenges come from modern ideas of freedom, political aggression, economic institutions, social media, and artificial intelligence.
Despite these changes, it is more important than ever to value and strengthen our connections with one another.

We have placed the new generation in a difficult situation, torn between old values and a focus on individual power. They feel pressure to follow no one and struggle with the responsibility of work, relationships and raising a family. This struggle comes from having seen the sacrifices their parents have made.
We may be failing our children by failing to guide them through this significant turning point for relationships, parenting and family life. We are witnessing a psychological revolution against the victims of previous generations seeking their identity. This search can lead to better or worse outcomes as they seek relationships and parenting, constantly pursuing validation to feel loved. Many of them become fragmented individuals, feeling the need to prove themselves to the world without being willing to put in the necessary work.